25 Ways to End a Thank You Letter to Family

25 Ways to End a Thank You Letter to Family

How to End a Thank You Letter to Family


There’s an old adage that goes, “You do for family,” and the meaning is clear. When a family member needs a favor, you grant it. You don’t ask for compensation. It doesn’t put them in your debt. If your family needs help, you help them.  

 Families — good families — have your back when no one else does. They’re the helping hand of last resort. Even if everyone else in your life abandons you, your family stays. They’re the core of your support structure, and you’re an important part of theirs.   An amazing family can make all the difference.

 And that’s why it’s so important to say thank you. Because they don’t owe you anything, and yet they do for you. They’re help you can depend on no matter how bad things get. And they don’t expect anything in return, so repay their kindness with gratitude.  

 Below you’ll find a range of ways to end a thank you letter to family. Why a thank you letter? Because it’s a lovely token of your appreciation that you can share with them. Because it means an awful lot to have people in your corner. And because they deserve it. 

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  • Families have a history that no one else shares. This enables you to personalize family thank you cards in a way you can’t with other people. Remind your family member what you mean to each other. Use warm family memories to set the stage for your gratitude.  
  •  Speak from the heart. Don’t worry about saying things the right way. Your family shouldn’t bother you about that. They’re happy to hear from you no matter what you say, so say what’s there for you. Writing a thank you letter to family can be easier than writing to anyone else because you really can’t say the wrong thing. 
  •  Be genuine. Your family can probably tell when you’re stroking their ego, so don’t go overboard. Tell them “thanks” and let them know what their gesture meant to you. Your thank you letter doesn’t need to contain much more than that.
A smiling family hugging each other.


  • Don’t bring up sore subjects. As close as families often are, there can be hot-button topics that spark conflict. Thank you cards aren’t the place to mention them, even in jest. They can shut your recipient down and ruin the moment. You want them to understand how grateful you are, so just say thank you.  A loving family can talk about anything, but maybe you don't need to all of the time.
  •  Make sure to thank everyone. Families talk; if you thank one person that deserves it but not another, the second person will probably find out. So let’s say your two cousins help you move. Send them both a thank you card, even if they live together. Expressing gratitude is no time to get lazy. Give everyone the thanks they’re due. 
  •  There’s no need to use phrases like “I’m forever in your debt” or “There’s no way I can pay you back.” These phrases imply an obligation that isn’t there. Remember — you do for family. Don’t insult them by belittling their selflessness. You don’t owe them anything, so don’t make them feel bad by pretending that you do. Repay them with thanks — and with help whenever they need it.


Thank you letters aren’t usually long. A few sentences to a couple of paragraphs is all it takes to express warm gratitude that doesn’t overstay its welcome.  

 Remember that gratitude makes some people uncomfortable. That's doubly true for family because they usually don't expect anything in return, whether they're close or extended family.  Negotiating a long thank you can leave them feeling like they didn’t do enough to earn it. Keeping things short and sweet is the best policy. 

 But this raises a new challenge. When your thoughts are terse, every word counts. Even your ending adds a lot to your overall sentiment, so you want to choose one that complements and amplifies what you express in the body of your letter.

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A thank you card that features a tree with butterfly flowers.


Remember, this is your family. You can say whatever you like, without judgment. Don’t put undue pressure on yourself to pick the “right” ending. There isn't one. Just select the entry that best expresses your heart. When you have a wonderful family, the most amazing family — a supportive family that is always there for you, they deserve to be told what an amazing person they are.

  • All my love, 
  •  Big thanks, big [sis, bro]! 
  •  Thanks so much! 
  •  All the best, 
  •  With gratitude, 
  •  You’re the best! 
  •  Gratefully, 
  •  Gratefully yours, 
  •  XOXO 
  •  Huge love for you! 
  •  Hugs and kisses, 
  •  I couldn’t do it without you! 
  •  You’re my rock, 
  •  Here’s to paying it forward! 
  • I appreciate you, dear family! 
  •  With love, 
  •  Thanks again! 
  •  Warm wishes to all of you! 
  • Thanks for being there for me. Since I lost my own family, I'm so happy to be a part of yours!  
  •  Can’t thank you enough! 
  •  Anytime you need anything, just let me know! 
  •  Thanks for all your help, 
  •  Thank goodness for family! 
  •  I couldn’t ask for a better [brother, sister, etc.]! 
  •  Thanks for everything!
An older woman holding hands with her adult daughter.


Emails are helpful in certain situations, but they ring hollow in others. Text messages should only ever be used to communicate quick bits of information — you should never use them for a heartfelt message. Only handwritten cards are evergreen — they’re happily accepted by everyone and always appreciated. 

 To put real emotional gravity behind your gratitude, take the time to handwrite your thank you letter. Let them know that they're such an amazing friend and that you're forever grateful for them. Your recipient will notice the time you invest, and they'll love that you care about them enough to pen a letter by hand.

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Handwritten is always better, but you might not have the time to buy a card, fill it out, stamp it, and get it in the mail. If this is you, remember that thank-yous have a time limit. Waiting too long to send them can dramatically reduce their impact. Imagine if you did something nice for someone, and they responded with thanks a month and a half later. Would you feel a bit underappreciated? When family members give you a generous gift, either of money or time, try to thank them for their thoughtful gift quickly. God bless them and tell them you're eternally grateful for a true friend like them.  

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